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The Ultra-Independent and Love
From an early age we are fed romantic stories of love. Damsels In Distress being saved by princes from faraway lands. A delicate woman...
Gail Weiner
Sep 21, 20214 min read
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The Ultra Independent and The Narcissist
The Narcissist loves the Ultra Independent, not because they view the Ultra as weak but rather because they see the strength that the...
Gail Weiner
Feb 8, 20212 min read
2,493 views


Abandonment and the Ultra Independent
The Ultra Independent is afraid of love and commitment because they are terrified of being abandoned. Again. We grew up in homes where a...
Gail Weiner
Feb 7, 20213 min read
1,878 views


The Ultra Independent and Grief
The onset of Ultra Independence in certain cases can be caused by grief, the death of a loved one or the breakup of a relationship. Grief...
Gail Weiner
Sep 21, 20202 min read
1,706 views


The Ultra Independent and friendship
To the outer world the Ultra Independent has created a super hero persona, you are invincible, holding everything together by yourself...
Gail Weiner
Sep 19, 20203 min read
1,963 views


The Ultra-Independent and the co-dependent lover
Ultra Independents can tend to form close relationships with people who are dependent on them. They love the codependent. A codependent...
Gail Weiner
Sep 17, 20202 min read
3,661 views

Ultra-Independence is a Trauma response
We all look at independence as a strength. "Oh look at Sarah and how independent she is, she doesn’t need anyone to help her financially...
Gail Weiner
Aug 14, 20204 min read
276,130 views
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